| Thursday, April 20th, 2006 |
Author: Libby |
| Fib for the road |
Time: 03:29:13 PM |
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Location: dashing out |
I'm off for a few days to help my friend Margo
(Philip's sister-in-law) drive from Baltimore to Houston as she moves back
here. So, expect some radio silence as we try to do the trip in as few
days as possible. I've been thinking about Fibs
since my post the other day, so here's
one for the road (remember, the format is 0-1-1-2-3-5-8...)
Drive
Through.
Without
a real stop.
Not to see the world,
But to help a friend to come home.
Okay, boring? Here's another.
Work.
School.
Yoga.
I'm breathing,
Hoping to finish
With my sanity and a smile.
Here's hoping you'll leave some for me
while I'm gone...
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| Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 |
Author: Libby Ingrassia |
| Recent Reads, part 1 |
Time: 04:00:00 PM |
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Location: home |
Too much going on to get all these in a
single post, but...
Part of the reason I've been so quiet around
here recently is that I've been working on some papers for grad school.
On the bright side, one of those papers required (ok, required may not
be accurate, but... that's the way I worked it...) a lot of reading. Below
is an annotated list of some of what I've been reading lately, including
those books for my paper (although this first batch is what I snuck in
before, after, and around the paper)...
Philippa
Gregory, The Other Boleyn Girl
- I read this one recently for my book club. The book tells the story of
Mary (Boleyn) Carey (Queen Anne's sister) and her relationship with King
Henry, her sister and brother, and Anne's rise and fall. I really enjoy
historical fiction, so this one was enticing, but I prefer when the authors
tell you how much is historical and how much fiction (in an author's note,
for example). One of our book club members was offput by the way-too-common
comma splices in the writing, but overall, a light, fun read.
Khaled
Hosseini, The Kite Runner
- I just finished a break between school semesters, so I took a moment
to get a book ahead on our book club reading. This book fit in nicely with
the class on Islam I just finished, as it takes place in Afghanistan. The
narrator tells of his privileged life as a young boy, the mistakes he makes
by being a coward when his closest friend needs him, and his trip to becoming
a writer living in America. After his marriage, he goes back to Afghanistan
to adopt the son of his friend and atone for his mistakes. A moving read
that was so realistic I had to keep reminding myself it was fiction and
not memoir. There were some places where the narrative jumps forward further
than I expected and leaves me feeling a gap, but in general, I really enjoyed
it.
Neil
Gaiman, Sandman: The Dream Hunters
- I've been working my way through the Sandman graphic novels from Gaiman
and enjoying them thoroughly. My friend Cindy tried to get me to read them
way back when but I wasn't really interested. Of course, she was right,
and I'm loving them. This one was written less as a comic-style than as
an illustrated novel, and those illustrations are so beautiful. Of course,
the story - a retelling of a Japanese fable -- is also done incredibly
well. Others from the series that I read recently were: Neil
Gaiman, Sandman: Endless Nights
and Neil
Gaiman: Death: The Time of Your Life.
Sadly, I think I've finished those off, but I've got some of Gaiman's "children's"
books and short stories left to explore.
Mitch Albom, Tuesdays
with Morrie – Keeping on the
memoir kick (you'll see what I mean in part 2), I took a few quick hours
(really about an hour and a half – quickie read) for this book, in which
Mitch tells about his relationship with a former college professor of his,
Morrie. Morrie is dying of ALS (Lou Gherig's Disease) and Mitch happens
to see a TV interview about it, prompting him to get back in touch. He
and Morrie spend some Tuesdays together talking about the important things
in life, which Mitch had lost touch with and which Morrie feels so pressingly.
I didn't pick this up when it came out because it seemed a bit cloying,
but after the life lessons I've learned over (and over and over) the last
two years, it was actually a nice read. Felt very…Buddhist, I guess. :-)
And reminded me that I might want to stay in better touch with the people
I love. They add so much to our lives.
The next group of books are all books of
memoir, written either by Iranians or by "Westerners" traveling
or living in Iran. Stay tuned for part 2.
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| Monday, April 17th, 2006 |
Author: Libby |
| The Fib |
Time: 09:43:35 AM |
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Location: home |
As long-time readers know, Rocky
and I have had a long-running Haiku
relationship.
Reading today's
NYTimes, I saw not one, but
two articles that link to a fun kind
of related poetic form that sparked some interest in my brain: the Fib,
which refers to a poem that uses the Fibonacci
sequence
to determine its syllables.
Apparently, blogger,
poet, and children's book writer Gregory K. Pincus
started the current Fib craze with
a post about his use of the the Fib
as a writing exercise. It happens to have sprung to even more widespread
popularity thanks to a post
on Slashdot.org. And so, in honor
of the intersection of National Poetry Month (something we celebrated quite
late around here last year) and Mathematics Awareness Month, here's my
post linking you all to the fun. :-)
According to the NYTimes, here's how the
Fibonacci sequence (mathematicians should feel free to elaborate) and the
Fib form work:
The Fibonacci progression
is a mathematical formula that starts with 0 and 1 and then continues to
add numbers that are equal to the sum of the previous two numbers. Thus,
the first seven numbers in the sequence are: 0-1-1-2-3-5-8.
To write a Fib, a more complicated version
of the classic, highly constrained haiku, the poet composes a six-line
poem that has the correct number of syllables in each line corresponding
to each digit in the sequence. (The real first line of each Fib is silence.)
So... here's my first crack at a Fib:
Crack
Whoosh
The ball
Flies over
His outstreched glove. And
Suddenly, the game is back on.
(hadn't talked much about the starting
baseball season, but that doesn't mean I haven't been paying attention!)
Must get a newsletter out now, but more
to follow --
PS - Hope everyone who celebrates it had
a happy Easter. My weekend was filled with family and friends as I visited
with my god-daughter, went to birthday parties, colored and hunted Easter
eggs, cooked and ate, and just had a busy but happy weekend. I hope you
did too.
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| Tuesday, April 11th, 2006 |
Author: Libby |
| How to be a critic/reviewer |
Time: 10:09:45 AM |
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Location: wishing i could be reading |
Interesting article
in Slate today about a NYT book critic
who is more about the thumbs up or thumbs down judgement -- using all those
adjectives and superlatives that don't really mean much -- than
she is about telling you something about the book.
"But the sour-grapes sniping from spurned authors
should not obscure the fact that Kakutani is a profoundly uninteresting
critic. Her main weakness is her evaluation fixation. This may seem an
odd complaint—the job is called critic, after all—but in fact, whether
a work is good or bad is just one of the many things to be said about it,
and usually far from the most important or compelling...One has the sense
of her deciding roughly at Page 2 whether or not a book is worthy; reading
the rest of it to gather evidence for her case; spending some quality time
with the Thesaurus; and then taking a large blunt hammer and pounding the
message home."
As I write more essays about books,
plays, memoirs, and movies, I recognize that my opinion on whether the
work is good or bad is only a small part of what is to be said about it.
Comparing the work to other works in its subgenre is sometimes interesting,
but more to see what's similar or different, than to say which one is best.
"The core question is how the current piece fits
into the oeuvre, and we expect reflective reviews to address it. In this
case, I'd be curious to see a critic consider Hornby's oft-stated and almost
obsessive pledge to write books that are entertaining and ultimately uplifting—and
how such a project could be expected eventually to encounter artistic and
philosophical difficulties.
You'd want this Platonic critic to touch on other stuff,
too. He or she could share some insights about the nature of novels written
in dramatic monologues, or novels about suicide, or novels, or art, or
life. Kakutani's refusal ever to take her eyes off the thumbs up/thumbs
down prize, or to lay any of her own prejudices, tastes, or tangentially
relevant observations on the table, is dispiriting."
The most prolific reviewer in our
midst, Duffbert,
I think does a good job of always telling you what's in the book and why
it might be useful to a particular reader or audience. I'm still working
to find my voice as a reviewer, but you can be certain, I'll take this
article to heart.
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| Monday, April 10th, 2006 |
Author: Libby Ingrassia |
| More on women authors |
Time: 10:41:58 PM |
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Location: tired after a run |
Via I
Speak of Dreams, a meme about women
authors you've read. Of course, it's not a complete list, by any means,
but it's an interesting start...
Instructions: Bold the ones you've read.
Italicize the ones you have wanted/might like to read. ??Place question
marks by any titles/authors you've never heard of?? Put an asterisk if
you've read something else by the same author.
* Alcott, Louisa May–Little Women
* Allende, Isabel–The House of Spirits
* Angelou, Maya–I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings
* Atwood, Margaret–Cat's Eye
* Austen, Jane–Emma
?? Bambara, Toni Cade–Salt Eaters
??Barnes, Djuna–Nightwood
*de Beauvoir, Simone–The Second Sex
* Blume, Judy–Are You There God? It's Me Margaret
Burnett, Frances–The Secret Garden
*Bronte, Charlotte–Jane Eyre
*Bronte, Emily–Wuthering Heights
Buck, Pearl S.–The Good Earth
Byatt, A.S.–Possession
Cather, Willa–My Antonia
Chopin, Kate–The Awakening
*Christie, Agatha–Murder on the Orient Express
Cisneros, Sandra–The House on Mango Street
*Clinton, Hillary Rodham–Living History
??Cooper, Anna Julia–A Voice From the South
Danticat, Edwidge–Breath, Eyes, Memory
Davis, Angela–Women, Culture, and Politics
Desai, Anita–Clear Light of Day
*Dickinson, Emily–Collected Poems
Duncan, Lois–I Know What You Did Last Summer
DuMaurier, Daphne–Rebecca
Eliot, George–Middlemarch
??Emecheta, Buchi–Second Class Citizen
*Erdrich, Louise–Tracks
Esquivel, Laura–Like Water for Chocolate
Flagg, Fannie–Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
Friedan, Betty–The Feminine Mystique
Frank, Anne–Diary of a Young Girl
Gilman, Charlotte Perkins–The Yellow Wallpaper
Gordimer, Nadine–July's People
Grafton, Sue–S is for Silence
Hamilton, Edith–Mythology
Highsmith, Patricia–The Talented Mr. Ripley
??hooks, bell–Bone Black
* Hurston, Zora Neale–Dust Tracks on the Road
Jacobs, Harriet–Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl
Jackson, Helen Hunt–Ramona
Jackson, Shirley–The Haunting of Hill House
Jong, Erica–Fear of Flying
*Keene, Carolyn–The Nancy Drew Mysteries (any of them)
Kidd, Sue Monk–The Secret Life of Bees
??Kincaid, Jamaica–Lucy
* Kingsolver, Barbara–The Poisonwood Bible
* Kingston, Maxine Hong–The Woman Warrior
?Larsen, Nella–Passing
* L'Engle, Madeleine–A Wrinkle in Time
* Le Guin, Ursula K.–The Left Hand of Darkness
Lee, Harper–To Kill a Mockingbird
*Lessing, Doris–The Golden Notebook
? Lively, Penelope–Moon Tiger
?Lorde, Audre–The Cancer Journals
Martin, Ann M.–The Babysitters Club Series (any of them)
McCullers, Carson–The Member of the Wedding
*McMillan, Terry–Disappearing Acts
?? Markandaya, Kamala–Nectar in a Sieve
?? Marshall, Paule–Brown Girl, Brownstones
Mitchell, Margaret–Gone with the Wind
Montgomery, Lucy–Anne of Green Gables
? Morgan, Joan–When Chickenheads Come Home to Roost
* Morrison, Toni–Song of Solomon
Murasaki, Lady Shikibu–The Tale of Genji
Munro, Alice–Lives of Girls and Women
Murdoch, Iris–Severed Head
* Naylor, Gloria–Mama Day
Niffenegger, Audrey–The Time Traveller's Wife
* Oates, Joyce Carol–We Were the Mulvaneys
* O'Connor, Flannery–A Good Man is Hard to Find
?? Piercy, Marge–Woman on the Edge of Time
* Picoult, Jodi–My Sister's Keeper
* Plath, Sylvia–The Bell Jar
* Porter, Katharine Anne–Ship of Fools
* Proulx, E. Annie–The Shipping News
* Rand, Ayn–The Fountainhead
* Ray, Rachel–365: No Repeats
* Rhys, Jean–Wide Sargasso Sea
?? Robinson, Marilynne–Housekeeping
?? Rocha, Sharon–For Lac
Sebold, Alice–The Lovely Bones
Shelley, Mary–Frankenstein
Smith, Betty–A Tree Grows in Brooklyn
Smith, Zadie–White Teeth
Spark, Muriel–The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie
Spyri, Johanna–Heidi
Strout, Elizabeth–Amy and Isabelle
Steel, Danielle–The House
* Tan, Amy–The Joy Luck Club
Tannen, Deborah–You're Wearing That?
?Ulrich, Laurel–A Midwife's Tale
? Urquhart, Jane–Away
* Walker, Alice–The Temple of My Familiar
*Welty, Eudora–One Writer's Beginnings
* Wharton, Edith–Age of Innocence
* Wilder, Laura Ingalls–Little House in the Big Woods
* Wollstonecraft, Mary–A Vindication of the Rights of Women
* Woolf, Virginia–A Room of One's Own
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| Thursday, April 6th, 2006 |
Author: Libby Ingrassia |
| What’s In a Kiss? Guide to Kissing Etiquette |
Time: 01:43:43 PM |
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Location: Home |
Giggled when I ran across this discussion
of kissing-as-greeting
etiquette in the NY Times. For
most of us in the US, kissing-as-greeting is fairly uncommon and restricted
to close family or friends. On the other hand, if you do business with
or have friends who are European (or Canadian), kissing is much more common.
I actually really like the custom -- it feels so warm and friendly. You
can see a guide to who
to kiss when in European customs at Blistex.
Knowing who to kiss, when to kiss, and how to handle the kiss can make
you look very smooth and well-traveled... (or the opposite, of course...)
When do you kiss?
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| Wednesday, April 5th, 2006 |
Author: Libby Ingrassia |
| Yoga: Handstand |
Time: 12:22:33 PM |
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Location: Home |
I've been working on the handstand
for the past six to eight months
with my teacher, Kay.
Like many others, I was skeptical when Kay first suggested that it was
time to stand on our hands; I'm not exactly thin and sylph-like and it
worried me.
Still, Kay has a very easy and soothing
method of learning to handstand that has worked for me -- I can pretty
consistently stand on my hands for 30 seconds to a minute.
So -- start next to the wall, maybe
3-4 inches away. Go into something that feels like a high-heeled downward
dog. Hands should be about shoulder-width
apart, and facing straight toward the wall. I usually spread my fingers
wide. Eyes should be toward the wall, which lifts your head a bit -- don't
drop your head until you're fully in the handstand. By keeping your focus
"forward," it helps keep your perspective, which is one of the
toughest parts of handstand.
Okay, next, test out to find which leg
is your stronger lead leg. Lift a leg and kick up toward the wall a few
times, hopping on the other foot. Then try kicking with the other leg.
The very first time you're trying this -- that's probably more than enough.
Once you've picked a leg, start focusing on finding the wall with the kicking
foot. Again, the next few times you try this, it may be plenty to just
practice the hopping and kicking -- the purpose behind this is to get used
to carrying your weight on your hands and arms and get comfortable with
the new and different perspective you get from being upside-down. So, you've
spent a few sessions putting more and more weight on your hands, kicking
up with your lead leg, looking for the wall with your foot. Once you start
finding the wall with that one foot, bring the other leg up to meet it.
At first, you'll probably kick hard, crash, and lean your legs and glutes
against the wall to get into the pose. At this point, you really
need to tighten your core muscles to hold yourself in alignment -- pull
your hips away from the wall, center your hips and shoulders over your
hands and feel as though you are reaching up with your feet, stretching
toward the ceiling. I like to imagine someone is holding my ankles and
pulling upward -- it gives me the right feeling of lift. It sounds kind
of odd, but by lifting actively, the weight on my hands feels less. So,
lifting, feeling your ribs and hips come apart, expanding through the torso,
chest, shoulders (shoulders should be broad, but not bunched up around
your ears -- neck long)... Overall, a feeling of lifting and lightness,
as well as active, working muscles. As you get comfortable on your hands,
you can drop your head and relax your neck muscles.
The breath: I breathe out when I'm kicking
up to the wall, take deep breaths while I'm in the handstand, and then
inhale to prepare for the dismount, exhaling as I come down to the floor,
inhale again as I stand up.
Keep in mind that "dismounts count"
as Kay likes to say. Your lead foot will gracefully come back toward the
floor, followed by the other foot. Think about placing the foot gently
rather than plopping.
Keep thinking about controlling the
feet, going both directions. I spent about a month away from yoga because
of school, and because of my downstairs neighbor, I can't practice in the
apartment. But I did spend a lot that time visualizing the handstand that
I wanted -- and my first day back to it, I felt as though I floated up
to the handstand, held it, and dismounted gracefully and lightly.
Of course, the next day, I was pretty
tired, and it didn't go as smoothly. Still, we have to forgive our bodies
for being different every day and do what we we can, right? So, I practiced
my kicking and breathing and we'll try again tomorrow.
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| Monday, April 3rd, 2006 |
Author: Libby Ingrassia |
| Fantasy Novelist’s Exam |
Time: 05:28:38 PM |
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Location: cafe artiste |
Ran into this fantasy
novelist's exam recently (I think
it was via Will
Shetterly, but I'm not sure anymore)
and since I know that I'm not the only one around here who loves to read
SF/Fantasy, thought you might be interested in this exam. All fantasy writers
should take this exam as they're planning their story -- it might be a
good way to avoid some of the more obvious derivative plot devices that
sometimes sneak in. I'm not quite as snarky about the rules as this exam
is -- I admit to reading and even enjoying many books that wouldn't have
passed this exam, but avoiding these problems is still a good way to write
a better book.
Beyond this, it's a good thought process
to improve your writing for almost anyone, whether writing a creative story,
novel, poem, or even essay (or blog entry?!) -- can you trace your ideas?
Are you just following someone else's pattern, or have you modified the
ideas so that they are not only your own, but also not a too-used cliché?
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